Free Personal Development Give-Away

July 11th, 2011

What’s better than a free ebook? How about nine free ebooks?

Head on over to the Free Personal Development Give-Away, courtesy of Diggy at Upgrade Reality, where you can download any of the following for free:

  • YOU V2.0 (by Dirk de Bruin)
  • Peace, Love, Connection (by Tess Marshall)
  • Unleash Your Maximum Potential (by Vincent Tan)
  • The Super-Charged Guide to Smart Living (by Jeff Nickles)
  • The Book of Wisdom (by Anastasiya Goers)
  • 500 Simple Ways to Celebrate and Enjoy Life (by Marelisa Fabrega)
  • Why We’re Failing the 4-Hour Workweek (by Hunter Nuttall)
  • How To Build Reputation With Your Blog (by Dragos Roua)
  • Successful Blogging in 12 Simple Steps (by Annabel Candy)

I haven’t read any of these (other than my own of course), but judging from the authors and topics, I’m sure you can find something here to your liking. Did I mention that they’re free?

Should Vegetarians Enter Hot Dog Eating Contests?

June 12th, 2011

Most people would say that someone has the right to be a vegetarian, since it’s a personal choice. But most people would also say that their choice doesn’t give them the right to enter a hot dog eating contest and demand that the rules be changed to accommodate them.

That’s an extreme case, but there are other cases that aren’t so clear-cut. When can an organization be expected to accommodate individual beliefs and practices, and when does the individual have to either comply or go home? What would you say in the following situations?

1. The Muslim weightlifter

Kulsoom Abdullah dresses for competitions the same way she always dresses in public – with her entire body covered, except for her face and hands. But she won’t be able to do that if she wants to participate in competitions governed by the International Weightlifting Federation.

The rules say that the elbows and knees must not be covered, so that judges can verify that the joints are locked and that the competitor is not wearing anything that gives them an advantage. But Abdullah was happy to hear that the IWF is willing to discuss the issue at their next meeting, and possibly allow some kind of exemption.

On the one hand, it’s probably possible to figure out a way to cover her elbows and knees while also allowing the judges to do their job. On the other hand, why should the burden be on the IWF and the judges?

What if the competition was during Ramadan (when Muslims fast between sunrise and sunset), so she wanted to compete at 5 AM instead of the scheduled time of 5 PM? What if someone’s religion requires them to wear thick clothing that makes it impossible to verify that their joints are locked? What if someone’s religion forbids them from touching metal?

2. The Marine at airport security

In the movie Taking Chance, Kevin Bacon plays a Marine Corps officer. As he approaches airport security in his service uniform, the TSA agent asks him to remove his medal-clad coat so it can go through the x-ray. Kevin refuses and asks to be taken to a private room and wanded down.

The TSA agent is annoyed and asks not to be told how to do his job. As the growing line becomes increasingly impatient, the agent again asks that the coat be removed. Kevin says he will not desecrate his uniform by running it through the x-ray, and demands to be wanded down in a private room. The agent allows this, but he isn’t happy about it.

This situation is similar to the previous one. He’s perfectly capable of removing his jacket and making it easy for everyone, but doing so conflicts with his beliefs. The biggest difference is that airports are already set up to allow private screenings – it’s not like the TSA has to debate whether they should allow this.

But suppose that for whatever reason, granting this request was difficult (maybe the person who usually does these things wasn’t on duty at the time). Does Kevin have a reasonable right to refuse to take off his coat, or does he give up that right by choosing to fly?

While we’re at it, what if he believed that planes should just drive on the roads instead of flying? What if he wanted to salute with his left hand?

3. The handicapped golfer

Casey Martin has a birth defect known as Klippel Trenaunay Weber syndrome, which requires him to constantly wear two rubber compression stockings and makes it painful and dangerous to walk long distances. He wanted to use a golf cart in the PGA Tour, but the rules say that everyone walks, as the fatigue from walking is part of the game.

His lawyers submitted videos showing the severity of Martin’s condition, in which his leg turned gray as the blood tried to push its way up. They argued that walking would risk fracturing his leg, which would lead to amputation, and that using a cart would not give him an advantage over his competitors who had to walk.

Martin’s request to use a cart under the Americans with Disabilities Act was initially denied by the PGA Tour in 1997. In 2001 the case went to the Supreme Court, who ruled 7-2 in favor of Martin.

Since this situation involves a disability rather than a personal choice, it might be easy to say that of course he can have a cart. But does that give him an unfair advantage over people who have to walk several miles in the hot sun?

If we’re going to say that walking isn’t part of the game, then anyone should be able to use a cart. If we’re going to say that giving him a slight advantage is an acceptable compromise to allow someone with a disability to play, then what constitutes a disability?

What about a sprained ankle? What about narcolepsy? What if someone who can’t swim for medical reasons wants to enter a triathlon?

Ten Steps Ahead (How To Become A Visionary)

May 24th, 2011

Why is it that visionaries such as Steve Jobs, Richard Branson, and Walt Disney seem to have extraordinary powers of ESP? Are they just born that way, or can vision be learned?

In Ten Steps Ahead: What Separates Successful Business Visionaries from the Rest of Us, Erik Calonius argues that vision is anything but an inborn talent. Instead, it’s the result of carefully training one’s brain to work with inspiration and perspective. This book is a very fun read, filled with all kinds of good stuff from neuroscience, psychology, and interviews with entrepreneurs.

One of my favorite examples is Richard Wiseman’s luck experiment. Using questionnaires and interviews, he determined whether his subjects considered themselves lucky or unlucky. He then gave them all a newspaper, and asked them to count the photographs. The “unlucky” people took two minutes to count them, while the “lucky” people took only a few seconds. Why?

Because the “unlucky” people missed the huge message on page 2 that said, “Stop counting. There are 43 photographs in this newspaper.” They didn’t see the half-page message in 2-inch high type because they were too busy counting.

His explanation: “Unlucky people miss chance opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties intent on finding their perfect partner, and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and as a result miss other types of jobs. Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for.”

Anyway, if you want to learn why visionaries have an uncanny ability to see and shape where the world is heading, read this book.

The Death Of Online Poker (And Maybe American Liberty)

April 17th, 2011

I was driving home from work on Friday when I got the text:

cnn.com
pokerstars execs indicted
domains seized by fbi

I didn’t believe it at first. But I checked the news and sure enough, the day that online poker players had always feared was finally upon us. The government had shut down the three biggest online poker sites, effectively ending online poker in the U.S.

While online poker is perfectly legal in most countries, it has been a gray area in the U.S. since 2006, when the SAFE Port Act was passed. It was mainly about port security, but an online gambling measure was added at the last minute. It essentially said, “Well, we don’t know if online poker is legal, but if it’s not, then it’s illegal for banks to process transactions for poker sites.”

Some poker sites stopped accepting U.S. customers altogether. Others were willing to let them play, but the problem was how to get money into their accounts. Since most payment processors didn’t want to get involved in this legal gray area, the poker sites had to find people who would. And they figured that as long as they were forced to do something a little bit illegal, they might as well do something a lot illegal.

That amounted to bank fraud and money laundering. The funny thing is that that’s really all this is about. No federal court has ever ruled that online poker is illegal.

I can’t really defend money laundering, but the government could just fine the individuals responsible instead of shutting down the whole industry. Really, the same government that couldn’t be bothered to prosecute the perpetrators of the financial meltdown has decided that they’re not going to let people play cards?

Looking at the tables on PokerStars, I see players from Russia, Chile, Argentina, Taiwan, Canada, China, Australia, Portugal, Spain, Poland, Israel, United Kingdom, Germany, Greece, New Zealand, Mexico, Ukraine, Costa Rica, Colombia, Brazil, Serbia, Czech Republic, Netherlands, Belgium, Austria, Estonia, Denmark, South Korea, Norway, Honduras, Paraguay…basically the whole world, except the United States.

Why don’t we have the same rights as people in these countries? What happened to the land of the free? Regardless of whether you happen to like poker, this is not a good precedent. Millions of people have lost a beloved hobby, and some people have lost their dream job.

What’s the point of trampling on this harmless pastime? The government couldn’t stop alcohol, and they can’t stop poker either. They’re just going to push it underground, missing the opportunity to regulate and tax it.

I’m going to go to work tomorrow (if software development is still legal), punch my time card and make a living without poker. Yes, I’ll survive, but the roses will smell a little less sweet, knowing I’ve lost this shot at the American Dream.

The Personal MBA: Master The Art Of Business

April 10th, 2011

Is business school worth the six figure price tag? About 15 years ago, my college econ teacher said that an MBA would pay for itself, but only if it was from a top 20 school. Today, I suspect the ROI is even less.

Josh Kaufman wrote The Personal MBA as an arguably better (and certainly far less expensive) way to learn the principles of business. He used to work at Proctor & Gamble, launching new products and developing marketing measurement strategies. Now he works as an independent business educator, providing an alternative to B-schools that, according to him, ”teach many worthless, outdated, even outright damaging concepts and practices.”

Is this book really an effective substitute for business school? I don’t know. You’d have to ask someone who went to business school, and see how it worked out for them.

I’m sure we could all debate the merits of business school until the cows come home. But anyway, for someone who has any interest in business school, it would be pretty dumb not to read this book. (Business schools will still be around when you’re done reading it.)

I did find the book slightly entertaining, but it’s not really something that you’d read for pleasure. It’s no-fluff, heavy-duty business knowledge, and lot of it, on a broad range of critical topics. Anyone interested in business would consider it a must-read.

Is there any situation where Josh would consider an MBA a good idea? Yes – if someone wants to work for a prestigious consulting firm, an investment bank, or a Fortune 50 company that uses MBAs as an interview filter. In that case, a $150,000 piece of paper is the cost of entry. Otherwise, you might as well avoid the debt.

(Now, to sit back and wait for flames from business school students…)

Is Happiness Overrated? (The Shocking Truth They Don’t Want You To Know)

March 19th, 2011

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In Want to Get Rich? Be (Moderately) Happy, Laura Rowley talks about some studies that have revealed surprising downsides to extreme happiness.

What? Surely this is heresy! Supreme happiness is the holy grail that we spend our whole lives looking for. You can never have too much of it, right?

Well, let’s just see.

People were asked to rate themselves on a happiness scale of 1 to 10. The perfect 10s had the most self-confidence, energy, close friends, and time spent dating. That’s not unexpected. Everyone likes happy people. Also, research showed that the 10s were likely to misremember things for the better, to recall being happier in retrospect than they actually reported at the time. This makes it easier for them to see the best in people.

What about the people who were happy but not too happy? The 7s and 8s did the best in terms of grades, class attendance, conscientiousness, income, education, and career. The idea is that moderately happy people receive a lot of benefits from their happiness, but they also harbor a touch of dissatisfaction that pushes them to strive for more. This may be a bit surprising, but it makes sense. If everything is perfect, you get comfortable and stop trying so hard.

It turns out that there’s an even bigger downside to excessive happiness: death. The extremely happy don’t live as long as the moderately happy.

Even the researchers were shocked by this one. They speculate that the reason may be because the super happy don’t pay enough attention to illness, or they don’t recognize the danger of the risks they take. Also, sustained euphoria takes its toll on the body, just like chronic stress. And because people aren’t genetically programmed to be extremely happy all the time, some people turn to drugs as happiness boosters.

University of Illinois psychology professor Ed Diener said, “Happiness, like spirituality, is partially a private pursuit, defined by individuals based on their personal values. Be wary when people tell you to live for the moment, to strive for an exciting life, or that you ought to be happier. Chasing super-happiness is a mistake that can lead you astray and be self-defeating.

Yes, there’s always a downside to having too much of a good thing, even happiness.

Photo by JasonRogers

A Briefer History Of Time

March 13th, 2011

What do we really know about the universe? How do we know it? Where did the universe come from, and where is it going? These are some of the questions addressed in A Briefer History of Time by Stephen Hawking and Leonard Mlodinow.

This is a 2005 rewrite of Hawking’s 1988 classic A Brief History of Time, which amazingly remained on the best-seller list for four years despite attempting to explain complex mathematics to a general audience.

Although the original book contained only one equation (E = mc2) and lots of illustrations, the inherent complexity of the subject matter made many readers say “Well, we love it, but we don’t understand it!”

Therefore, this rewrite removes the purely technical stuff while focusing on a simplified (though certainly not simplistic) treatment of the core concepts. Read it for an entertaining but not overly taxing explanation of curved space, the big bang, black holes, wormholes, relativity, and quantum gravity.

What’s the point of it all? We’re hopefully moving closer and closer to discovering a unified theory, which would basically give us the answer key to the universe. As Hawking says, ”If we find the answer to that, it would be the ultimate triumph of human reason–for then we would know the mind of God.”

The Blogger’s Guide To Freelancing

February 27th, 2011

Just a heads up that Ali Luke (née Hale) has released The Blogger’s Guide to Freelancing (née The Staff Blogging Course).

I reviewed her Staff Blogging Course nearly two years ago. (Has it really been that long?) Whenever someone asked me how they could make money blogging, I would always point them to that ebook, because it’s the best way I know to get all the information you need in one place.

Now she’s updated and expanded it to make The Blogger’s Guide to Freelancing. While I haven’t read this new version, I have no doubt that it’s even better than the original.

It looks like my old discount code, HNreader, is still good for $5 off. And when you buy it, you get a $10 discount code for another ebook of hers, The Blogger’s Guide to Effective Writing. And you get a six month money-back guarantee, so there’s practically no risk to try it out.

Oh, and if you previously bought the original version, you should have already received the new one for free. If not, just leave a comment, and she’ll take care of it.

The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference

February 20th, 2011

Since I liked Malcolm Gladwell’s book Outliers so much, I’ve been meaning to read some of his other books. I finally got around to his first bestseller, The Tipping Point.

It’s about the idea that “ideas and products and messages and behaviors spread like viruses do,” becoming epidemics when they reach a critical mass, or their tipping point. But what causes something to tip?

It happens though the efforts of a small number of people with very specific talents: connectors (social networkers), mavens (information specialists), and salesman (persuaders). If something is spread by the right people, and if it’s “sticky” enough, and if it’s delivered in the right context, it reaches a tipping point.

He shows how his theory explains the tipping points of a number of epidemics, including Paul Revere’s midnight ride, the six degrees of Kevin Bacon, Sesame Street, Hush Puppies shoes, New York crime rates, syphilis in Baltimore, suicide in Micronesia, and smoking in the U.S.

You probably won’t find it very practical, but it’s very thought provoking. I found it good, but not as good as Outliers (although I’ve heard other people say the opposite).

Unless You’ve Been Living Under A Rock…

February 18th, 2011

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that 99.999% of the planet is living under a rock. At least, that’s the only conclusion I can come to, based on how far we’ve lowered the bar for using this opener.

The bad news? As cultured and sophisticated as you are, you can virtually be assured that you are living under a rock. The good news? It’s apparently a really big rock, and there’s lots of company here.

So how can you find out for sure if you’re a resident of this vast world under the rock? I did a search to determine the criteria. At first, I found a few suggestions that it only takes minimal awareness to separate yourself from these people:

  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the last decade or so, you are familiar with the concept of the internet.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’re aware that America is in the midst of a recession.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve probably heard of Justin Bieber.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, there’s a good chance you’ve already heard of Susan Boyle.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that Michael Jackson died.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock you are almost certainly familiar with Facebook.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve probably heard of The South Beach Diet.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past month or so, you know that today is Election Day.”

OK, this is pretty reasonable. Maybe there was room for me above ground. Or so I naively thought. When I looked deeper, I saw that being a surface dweller requires an impossibly diverse knowledge base:

  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past year or so, you are aware of the Bokeh effect.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that Microsoft finally signed off on Visual Studio 2005 and that it’s available now (or soon) to MSDN subscribers.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’re aware by now that an endocrine disrupting chemical known as Bisphenol-A (BPA for short) has been popping up in all manner of consumer goods.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past few months, you know that I have been busy developing a library that will, hopefully, make OpenGL development as painless and fun as possible.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ll know that one of the Skrull infiltrators (and the Empress herself) in Marvel’s Secret Invasion is none other than Spider-Woman.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past month, you know that the VMA’s advanced mixed choir, Powerhouse, was invited to perform on the Oprah Winfrey Show, for a special Glee episode.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve heard about The Audience Conference, taking place in NYC on Friday, November 6th at the Hudson Theater.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that Katie Holmes performed a tribute to Judy Garland on Fox’s dancefest competition So You Think You Can Dance last night.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past six months, you’ve heard of US interaction designers and strategists ZURB.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve seen pictures of the beautiful all-new 2011 Cadillac CTS and CTS-V Coupes.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve already played Madden NFL 09.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that Lars von Trier is the premier author of the Danish Dogme 95 manifesto.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the last week, you’ll have noticed that Google’s App Engine now lets you run Java web apps.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the last couple of weeks, you’ll know that the big news this month has been the launch of the ATI Radeon HD 6850 1GB and the ATI Radeon HD 6870 1GB.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve seen the blogosphere cooking and baking their way through Dorie Greenspan’s gorgeous new cookbook Around My French Table.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you are well aware that Bora Zivkovic left ScienceBlogs 24 hours ago.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’re aware of the controversy over CW Skimmer.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock lately you then know Dead Space 2 hit shelves this week.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ll have heard about the Andy Gray & Richard Keys kerfuffle/scandal.”
  • “Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you have heard the recent brouhaha over Microsoft’s Windows Genuine Advantage (WGA) Notifications update to Windows.”

Give yourself a pat on the back if you were aware of most of these things. But remember, all it takes is one gap in your knowledge to banish you to a subterranean prison. I hope there are enough cavefish for all of us.