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8 Life Lessons From Star Trek

Sunday, May 10th, 2009

I’ve never been much of a Star Trek fan, but I went to see it because everyone seems to like it. Yes, it’s good. And in addition to being good sci-fi, it also carries some important life lessons. (Contains spoilers.)

1. Being different isn’t a bad thing.

The young Spock, being half human and half Vulcan, is a child of two worlds, and doesn’t appear to belong in either one. He’s not accepted by the other kids, and even adults speak of his heritage as a disadvantage. In time though, he makes his own path, finding a huge asset in the combination of Vulcan logic and human emotion.

Do you ever assume that being different is a bad thing?

2. Find a balance between the extremes.

At first, Kirk overindulges his reckless nature with nearly disastrous results, while Spock completely shuts off his emotions and follows the rules to a life he doesn’t want. Eventually, they settle on more moderate personalities. Not exactly in the middle, but at a point where they can avoid most of the consequences of the extremes while still being themselves.

Do you have a tendency to be too extreme in any aspect of your personality?

3. Anyone can be worth listening to.

As the fleet responded to a Vulcan distress call, Kirk connected the dots and realized it was a trap. He tried to warn the crew, who wouldn’t even hear him out at first. After all, he had been suspended, and he was regarded as a loose cannon. Still, he was the only one who knew all the relevant information, and because the crew finally decided to listen, they were prepared for the trap.

Do you ever ignore potentially good advice because of your personal bias?

4. Anyone can make a difference.

George Kirk was captain of the U.S.S. Kelvin for only 12 minutes. But he spent those 12 minutes evacuating the crew and sacrificing himself to save 800 lives.

Are you capable of doing more than you give yourself credit for?

5. Revenge is a dish best not served at all.

The saying “revenge is a dish best served cold” is said to be a Klingon proverb. It means that revenge is more likely to succeed when carefully planned out (cold-blooded) as opposed to being hasty and emotional (hot-blooded).

That might be true, but why not skip revenge altogether? It rarely works out to your benefit. Did Captain Nero really need to sit around doing nothing for 20 years, waiting for Spock to emerge from the black hole? That’s a long time to stay mad at someone, especially someone who didn’t intentionally do anything wrong.

Are there any grudges you can drop today?

6. Don’t play with red matter.

Red matter is a substance that ignites to create a black hole. Spock used it to contain a supernova that would have destroyed the galaxy, so this is dangerous stuff. Apparently, Nero forgot that part when he fired on Spock’s ship. Metaphorically, playing with red matter is doing something that can potentially work, but isn’t worth the risk.

Do you ever try to succeed at any cost, regardless of the consequences?

7. Extreme situations call for extreme measures.

When the Enterprise’s engines weren’t powerful enough to escape from the black hole’s gravitational field, Kirk went with Scotty’s idea of ejecting the warp drive reactor cores and exploding them to propel the ship forward. It was a risk – they could have blown themselves up, or the explosion could have done nothing but destroy their warp capability. But since full speed ahead wasn’t enough, they had to try something.

Have you ever ruled out a risky but feasible option, while clinging to something that wasn’t working?

8. There’s no such thing as a no-win scenario.

Kirk took a test that was designed to be a no-win scenario. It’s a simulation in which no matter what you do, your ship is destroyed. The point of the test is to judge your response to the fear of certain death.

On his third attempt, Kirk beat the no-win scenario by altering the simulator’s programming. He was accused of cheating and missing the whole point of the test, to which he responded that he doesn’t believe in the no-win scenario.

The no-win scenario really doesn’t exist, although you may have to reconsider your definition of “winning.”

Are you facing any scenarios you consider to be “no-win?” Are you sure that’s an accurate perception?

(Randy Pausch, a life-long Star Trek fan, received an autographed picture of William Shatner, on which Shatner wrote “I don’t believe in the no-win scenario.” Randy makes a blink-and-you’ll-miss-it cameo appearance early in the movie as a crew member on the Kelvin, with the line “Captain, we have a visual.”)

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Specialization Is For Insects

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

“A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.”

- Robert Heinlein, Time Enough for Love

I’ve always loved that quote, but I don’t think he took it quite far enough. Let’s try again:

“A human being should be able to make six figures online, write an enthralling novel, design a relational database, mix a perfect margarita, calculate a stock’s annualized return, juggle five balls in the lotus position, nail every shift point in a drag race, throw a murderous left hook, solve Rubik’s Cube while discussing the latest tax laws, do heavy squats without a back brace, stand with their legs straight and touch their palms to the floor, identify a stranger’s Myers-Briggs type, separate fact from fiction in the law of attraction, make a baby feel safe, make a child laugh, make an elderly person feel respected, be one of the guys, and give a girl multiple orgasms. Specialization is for insects.”

That’s better!

In 11th grade, I took a class called American Civilization, which was English and history combined. Officially, my schedule showed that I had English class with one teacher, followed by history class with another teacher. But the two classrooms were right next to each other, so they took down the divider and made it into one big classroom. Both teachers taught both subjects, blending them together as if they were the same thing.

The idea was that you can’t fully understand literature without understanding the history of the time it was written. And history doesn’t come alive until you read the literature from that time. The teachers said it really didn’t make any sense to separate these subjects. In college, I remember thinking that if I became a professor, I’d like to teach a class that combined differential equations and art history, because I didn’t see any reason to separate them.

What other things does it make sense to mix? When is generalization a better idea than specialization?

Before we get into this, let’s acknowledge that this is a really huge question, and a complete answer could easily fill a book. For one thing, where do you draw the line between specialization and generalization?

Is Jack Bauer a specialist? He’s really good at catching bad guys, and it’s hard to imagine him in any other job. But when it comes to that job, he brings the full package. He’s a weapons expert, unarmed combat expert, interrogation expert, and operations expert. He’s the best field agent, the best tactical leader, and he was director of CTU. He easily goes undercover with criminal overlords, and somehow forms a personal relationship with every U.S. president (well, except for the evil one).

When the bad guys are trying to beat information out of him, he doesn’t have the luxury of saying “Sorry, but withstanding torture isn’t really my thing. Let me get the guy who does that.” He needs to be CTU’s one-stop shop for all their counter-terrorist needs. Whatever the job, he gets it done. The only thing he really can’t do is computer hacking, but he effectively outsources that to Chloe O’Brian, a specialist. (Or is she?)

I was talking to spiritual coach Akemi Gaines about this, and Henry Ford was one of the names that came up. I called him a specialist, and Akemi said:

“I don’t think Henry Ford is a specialist. Sure, he knew a lot about automobile, but what his greatness is that he gathered people (specialists) and made a modern assembly line style manufacturing company. He is well known for what he said in the trial (!) — ‘I don’t know the answer for that, but I can get someone who does.’ (something like that).”

I agree about what his greatness was, but I didn’t consider his specialty to be the automobile. For all I know, he didn’t know what a steering wheel was. I considered his specialty to be leadership in manufacturing. So depending on how you look at him, you could see either a specialist or a generalist. Was Einstein a specialist because he just did physics, or the ultimate generalist because he worked on a theory to explain the entire universe?

Furthermore, isn’t it possible to wear different hats at different times? Can’t you be a great web designer to one set of customers, a great travel agent to a different set, and a great spouse to someone else?

Anyway, specialization vs. generalization is a really big topic, but I can tackle part of it with a few posts. In this post, I’m going to come off as pro-generalist. Next time, I’ll be pro-specialist. (Does that style count as specialization or generalization?)

Can you combine seemingly unrelated career paths? Sure, why not? See if you can identify these people who eschewed specialization. Surely they were complete failures in the eyes of society, if they couldn’t even pick a niche.

Nicheless man #1: His tombstone lists what he considered his three greatest achievements, and being President of the United States didn’t make the cut. He was a distinguished architect, naturalist, linguist, horticulturist, statesman, archaeologist, and inventor.

Nicheless man #2: Although most of his work was in the field of Bible interpretation, he made tremendous contributions to many branches of science. In fact, he wrote one of the most influential books in the history of science, and invented calculus.

Nicheless man #3: He was an architect, poet, and engineer, but you don’t know him for these things. He created some of the most famous paintings in history, despite having a low opinion of painting. He’s mainly known for something else today. While still alive, he was called Il Divino, meaning “the divine one.”

Did you identify these nicheless slackers? They’re Thomas Jefferson, Isaac Newton, and Michelangelo. Boy, imagine what Isaac Newton could have accomplished, if only he had stuck with Bible study!

Now let’s look at the archetypal Renaissance Man, Leonardo da Vinci. He was a scientist, mathematician, engineer, inventor, anatomist, painter, sculptor, architect, botanist, musician, and writer, among other things. How many short-sighted people do you think told him to pick a niche and stick with it?

If he had stuck with one thing, he might have been a little better at that thing, but much of his talent would have been wasted. Should he have advanced the field of hydrodynamics a bit further, at the cost of not painting the Mona Lisa? Ridiculous.

Much of his ability must have come from natural talent. Much of it came from his apprenticeship to Andrea del Verrocchio starting at age 14, where he learned drafting, chemistry, metallurgy, metal working, plaster casting, leather working, mechanics, carpentry, drawing, painting, sculpting, and modeling.

But another part of it was his ability to learn holistically, and transfer skills from one discipline to another instead of treating them separately. For example, his paintings the Mona Lisa, the Last Supper, and the Virgin of the Rocks are considered masterpieces not just because of his artistic techniques, but because of his detailed knowledge of anatomy, light, botany, geology, and the way people show emotion.

This is a critical point, because you don’t have time to learn everything from scratch. Details will vary, but principles stay the same. Master the principles, and the details will surrender themselves to you.

Steve Pavlina claims that all successful personal growth efforts come down to bringing yourself into greater alignment with just three core principles: truth, love, and power. He makes his articles interesting by finding common threads between personal development and seemingly unrelated topics, such as software, chess, or Star Trek.

In The Joy of Solving Problems, he describes a technique he used to solve a problem without having extensive knowledge in that field:

“One morning my physics teacher walked up to me at my locker before school and asked me to step inside his classroom. He presented me with a physics problem that he couldn’t seem to solve. I solved it easily, not because I was better than him at physics but because I’d been exposed to such an enormous variety of problems that my mind just saw the solution. That physics problem fit the pattern of a class of problems I already knew how to solve. My solution was unusual for a physics problem, but it wasn’t that unusual for a math problem…It was only later in life that I realized how helpful it is to generalize this attitude beyond math, science, and logic problems and into the realm of practical daily existence.”

In my high school chemistry class, our teacher gave us a problem and forgot to give us the relevant formula. The person next to me was completely paralyzed without the formula, because he didn’t know what to do other than plug in numbers like a blind gorilla. What did I do? I just used common sense, because the problem was conceptually simple. This strategy won’t always work, but when problems get more complicated, you’d better understand the concept even if you have the formula.

In college physics, I had a really boring teacher with a thick accent that made him very hard to understand, so I rarely went to class. On one test, there was a problem that I had no idea how to solve the way he wanted us to, but I figured it out knowing that physics is big on “conservation of stuff.” Fortunately I didn’t have to show how I arrived at the answer, and this wouldn’t always work. But when you know the principles, you’re that much more effective when you study the details.

Back when the computer game Doom was all the rage for its immersive 3D graphics, my friend saw me having a good time with it, and wanted to play. She did not have a good time with it. She couldn’t find her way out of mazes, she overlooked important items in the rooms, she didn’t see the monsters sneaking up on her, and she couldn’t use the space around her to dodge enemy blasts while staying focused on her target. As Marty McFly might say, she had a problem thinking 3rd dimensionally.

When we tried another similar game, she wondered why I picked it up right away, while she struggled again. It was because I had developed a general skill that she hadn’t: spatial perception. After learning that skill, I could apply it to any of these games. I can also apply it to a wide array of other situations, from juggling to geometric constructions to sweeping a building for terrorists (which hopefully I’ll never have to do). It’s all the same.

Conversely, I was very ineffective at a number of tasks she excelled at, because she had learned one general skill that I hadn’t: networking. Because she was good at that, she could easily drum up support for any cause, acquire business contacts, and get invited to things other people couldn’t. It’s all the same.

Recently I’ve heard a few people say that Tim Ferriss is all over the place in his range of topics. This surprised me, because I thought he had a pretty clear focus. He’s the 4-Hour Workweek guy. He’s the lifestyle design guy. (And if they think he’s all over the place, then they must think I choose topics with a random number generator!)

Skellie clarified this in Escaping Niches, a really nice post, although I disagree with this particular part. She said that Tim’s blog “jumps all over the place, from road-testing supercars to extreme weight loss to travel tips to nutritional science. The range of topics is so broad that no one person could be interested in all of them.”

I just don’t see it that way. Someone who ends up at his blog after a Google search for the Audi R8 might not be interested in extreme weight loss. But Tim’s not writing for people who want to look up the horsepower of the Audi R8. He’s writing for people who are interested in what he’s all about – deconstructing, streamlining, and remapping any challenge. His ideal reader won’t mind that he doesn’t stay on the same narrow topic. Like me, they might not even notice.

I’ll point you to two great posts about generalization, which dispel the “jack of all trades, master of none” myth. First, Tim’s post The Top 5 Reasons to Be a Jack of All Trades. He has some great points about the superior success and life enjoyment of the generalist. For example, what do you call the top military guys? Generals! This is also where I came across one of my favorite phrases: “Be too complex to categorize.”

The other is Michael Martine’s Hiring Help for Your Blog – Why a Generalist is the Way to Go. It might not perfectly reflect the services he offers today (click his Blog Coaching and Consulting link for details), but it’s a fantastic explanation of why you don’t want to hire a guy who won the Nobel Prize for CSS without knowing a thing about SEO.

Mike at Four Pillars gave me some blogging advice the other day, in response to I Am Part Time Blogger, Hear Me Meow:

“Anyway, the reason your blog isn’t more successful in terms of RSS is quite simple (yes, I know the answer). Your posts are not main stream enough – you don’t talk about everyday, common items which most of the blogosphere can relate to. Your posts are all over the map in terms of topics, you write about confusing concepts and ideas! :)

Obviously this is not meant as criticism – it’s just an analysis based on factors that I think popular blogs share. Most of them cover things like saving money, investment, budgeting etc etc but they talk about things like cars, homes, cable bills etc. Most people can relate to those things. If you have a blog that usually covers common topics, has some focus (ie saving money, investing, baby stuff), you are a good writer, can promote the blog and work your ass off then you will probably have fairly successful blog in terms of RSS.”

I kind of agree and kind of disagree. It depends on whether you want to give people what they want, or give them what they need. I agree that niche blogs tend to be the most successful. Most blog readers seem to love them, but I have no idea why. The problem is that they’re often redundant. Most of the examples mentioned here have been done to death already, if there was ever anything to say in the first place.

Saving money? Why does anyone need to read about that? You save money by spending less. That’s all there is to it. Investing? It can potentially be very complicated, but investment blogs usually just tell people what they would already know if they read the newsletter that comes with their 401(k) statement. Budgeting? Yeah, it’s important, but I don’t see how you can get much fresh material on such a simple topic.

Of course, people read blogs for reasons other than getting information. Community, for one. So many of these blogs, even if they don’t really have anything new to say, can still be useful. But I’d rather find new things to say. Even if an exhausted topic can work, it’s not really something we need.

For me, doing a niche blog would be a terrible choice. First, I’d keep having to think up something else to say on that same topic even if there was nothing left to say. Scott Young noted that the purpose of his website is to lose its readers. He said that after you’ve read a blog for a while, “you move on, not because the ideas weren’t great, but because you’ve absorbed them fully enough that there isn’t anything left.”

Darren Rowse found that to be true on ProBlogger, his blog about blogging that’s targeted at beginner and intermediate level bloggers. He said that most of his readers tend to be regulars for a few months, then leave. It’s not because he’s not doing a good job. It’s because he’s doing such a good job that he quickly tells people everything they need to know about that topic. They graduate and move on.

Many times, the blogger gets sick of their own topic. After writing thousands of posts on the same topic, they’ve long since outgrown it, and they want out. Some people seem to think that the ultimate goal is to hand the reins over to someone else, so you can step away. But instead of that, why not create a blog you won’t outgrow, so you never want to step away?

The other problem with niche blogs is that any idea you have that doesn’t happen to fall within the boundaries of your specific topic is wasted. And I’m certainly not going to start a separate blog on every topic I write about. I’d end up with hundreds of blogs with just a few posts each.

Instead, I choose to write about any topic that fits with my general focus. I might have a hard time putting my general focus into words, but it’s there. It’s kind of like Seinfeld – you can say it’s about nothing, but it still has a general focus, and you have some idea of what to expect.

By not restricting myself to a narrow topic, I can write about some things that others can’t, because some things fall outside all of the traditional niches. And because I can switch things up, I don’t have to repeat myself a whole lot. But writing about high-level stuff is very different from combining unrelated niches. A blog about finance and gardening won’t work, because it’s targeting two completely different kinds of people. I’m targeting one kind of person.

Leo Babauta seems to advocate non-niche blogging now, judging from his post Shattering the Myth of Blog Niches: How to Grow a Huge Readership. (Although if I remember correctly, he once attributed his success partly to his unique focus on simple productivity. Can anyone confirm? Oh, and simplicity is another niche that I don’t get. If it’s so simple, why do you need to write thousands of posts about it?)

Now don’t go crazy with generalization, thinking that specialization is for suckers. I’ve got one or two posts coming about the benefits of specialization. Subscribe now, and don’t miss them!

But generalization is seriously underrated. Just ask Benjamin Franklin, Galileo Galilei, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Gottfried Leibniz, Pythagoras, Aristotle, Archimedes, Cicero, John von Neumann, and countless other people who refused to be a job title, and insisted on being too complex to categorize.

I think Tim Ferriss has the second-best answer to the question “What do you do?” He sometimes just says “I’m a drug dealer” to end the conversation, because it takes too long to explain everything to someone who’s probably just making chit chat.

The best answer would be what escaped mental patient Billy Caufield said in The Dream Team: “What do I do? Well, it kinda depends on the circumstances.”

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Emergency Preparedness (Saving My Blog’s Life)

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009


Photo by Annie Mole

In Boy Scouts, one of the most important things you do is work on earning your merit badges. And one of the most coveted merit badges, one required for becoming an Eagle Scout, is Emergency Preparedness.

To earn this merit badge, you need to demonstrate that you’re prepared for emergencies such as fires, explosions, car accidents, being trapped in the desert or a blizzard, food poisoning, flash floods, mountain accidents, boating accidents, gas leaks, tornadoes, hurricanes, avalanches, touching live electrical wires, carbon monoxide poisoning, and nuclear power plant emergencies (all of these are actually on the list).

I never earned this merit badge, but like everyone else, I’m still responsible for being prepared in the event of an emergency. And I experienced an emergency a couple of days ago, when my blog crashed.

To call this an emergency might sound like an exaggeration to some of you, but anyone who has a blog can imagine how it feels to first lose the ability to comment, and then lose the ability to log in. While I welcome technical challenges at work, it’s different when they strike where you live. I guess it’s like how a surgeon can operate on strangers with no problem, but not on their own kids.

And if something seems like an emergency to you, that’s how you’re going to treat it. Here’s a simple guide to dealing with emergencies (that aren’t really emergencies).

1. Freak out.

It’s not exactly constructive, but if you’re going to do it anyway, you might as well claim that you’re checking the first step off the list. Maybe the world really is coming to an end, and you need to react accordingly. Just get it out of your system, and then move on.

2. Realize that the problem is smaller than you.

You might overlook this truth, but your inner voice knows it. My inner voice told me that fixing my blog was not even remotely the biggest problem I’ve ever had to deal with. I said, “But I don’t know how to fix it.” My inner voice said, “But you know how to find out.”

3. Brainstorm solutions.

After you’ve calmed down a little, it’s time to actually do something. Determine specifically what the problem is, and come up with ideas of how to solve it.

4. Take action.

Pick the solution that seems most promising, and run with it. Repeat as needed.

5. Prepare for next time.

Once it’s over, decide what you’ll do to be better prepared next time. @bripblap said I inspired him to back up his blog that evening. We all know that regular backups are critical, but many of us don’t do enough of them.

John Hoff at WpBlogHost pointed me to the WordPress Exploit Scanner, a plugin that checks your blog for signs that it’s been hacked. I don’t know if I was hacked or not, but if it happens, I’ll sure want to know.

Are you prepared for emergencies?

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How To Become An Expert

Monday, April 13th, 2009

The secret to success is very simple: practice. Although most people think that world class performance requires huge talent, research shows that 10 years (or 10,000 hours) of practice can make anyone a top performer in pretty much any field, from sports to music to business.

The talent myth is very easy to believe when you look at people at their peak. People forget that Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team, or that Abraham Lincoln lost numerous elections, or that Barbara Blackburn failed typing in high school (she went on to become the world’s fastest typist, with a peak of 212 wpm).

The good news is that practice makes perfect, so anyone has a chance. Just put in your 10,000 hours, and you’ll make it. But I’ve heard a lot of people citing this statistic lately, and they tend to miss one critical point: not all practice counts. Fortune Magazine reveals what it takes to be great:

“So greatness isn’t handed to anyone; it requires a lot of hard work. Yet that isn’t enough, since many people work hard for decades without approaching greatness or even getting significantly better. What’s missing?

The best people in any field are those who devote the most hours to what the researchers call ‘deliberate practice.’ It’s activity that’s explicitly intended to improve performance, that reaches for objectives just beyond one’s level of competence, provides feedback on results and involves high levels of repetition.

For example: Simply hitting a bucket of balls is not deliberate practice, which is why most golfers don’t get better. Hitting an eight-iron 300 times with a goal of leaving the ball within 20 feet of the pin 80 percent of the time, continually observing results and making appropriate adjustments, and doing that for hours every day – that’s deliberate practice.”

So before punching your time card and starting to count your 10,000 hours, make sure you’re doing the right kind of practice. Undeliberate practice doesn’t count, which is why it’s possible to work in the same office for 30 years without becoming good at anything.

At my high school graduation, one of the speakers told us what it takes to become an expert. Just read about your topic of choice for an hour a day. After a year, you’ll be a national expert. After five years, you’ll be an international expert. And I heard someone say that reading six books on any subject will make you an expert.

These feats take far less time than the 10 years or 10,000 hours mentioned about, but I guess we’re talking about different levels of expertise.

The 10,000 hour rule comes from Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers: The Story of Success. I haven’t read it yet, and I haven’t found out exactly what the 10,000 hour rule applies to.

To be a great blogger, do you really need to blog for 10,000 hours? Or do you just need 10,000 hours of writing experience? Or 10,000 hours of experience in your subject matter? To be a great programmer, do you need 10,000 hours of experience with one particular language, or does all experience count? Does 10,000 hours of reading the news make you an expert of world events, or is that too broad?

Do you know? Do you have 10,000 hours of experience in anything?

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How To Be More Creative: A Handbook For Alchemists

Sunday, April 5th, 2009

How to Be More Creative: A Handbook for Alchemists

It’s hard to say exactly what separates us from the animals. For now, I’m going to say creativity. That’s not perfect, but creativity separates us from all but dolphins, chimpanzees, Lassie, and the loosely-based-on-reality velociraptors in Jurassic Park.

In order to write this post, I unfortunately had to take a break from playing Sokoban, one of the many creativity-inducing resources that Marelisa Fabrega points us to in her new ebook. See, the thing about creativity is that it takes you into the flow state. And once you get there, you don’t want to leave.

But it wouldn’t be very nice of me to keep these secrets all to myself, would it? And so I’m taking a break for just long enough to tell you about this ebook called How to Be More Creative: A Handbook for Alchemists.

Anytime I hear someone saying that there’s nothing new out there anymore, or everything that can be done has been done, I want to smack them. Creativity has taken us from apes to where we are now, and it continues to take us forward every day. But people often limit themselves by thinking that creativity is reserved for a select few.

I completely agree with Marelisa that creativity is not something that either you have or you don’t. Everyone has it, but it’s a skill that needs to be developed to its potential. And the more you train your creativity, the more you can do with it, whether it’s in the form of making more money, writing a novel, cooking better meals, entertaining yourself, or doing any of those other things that separate us from the animals.

The only concern I had is that since Marelisa has already written so much about creativity on her blog, I wondered if there would be enough new material in her ebook. And yes, there is. She’s included information from some of her best posts, but she also has lots of new info, stories, tips, examples, and enough fun and informative resources to take your creativity as far as you want to take it.

How to Be More Creative: A Handbook for Alchemists is something you can start putting into practice right away. It’s reminded me that I need to start using my Moleskine notebook the way Leonardo da Vinci would. (Which I’ll get right on, as soon as I’m done with Sokoban!)

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Amazon Kindle Review: The Future Of Book Reading

Monday, March 23rd, 2009

The Amazon Kindle may seem like just another fancy gadget for techno geeks. But make no mistake, this is the biggest invention since the cell phone. And with the release of the new and improved Kindle 2, it’s even bigger.

Me holding my Amazon Kindle 2

Here’s a picture of me holding 245,000 books in one hand. Or more accurately, access to said number of books. The latest version of the Kindle is the width and height of a small book, the thickness of a pencil, and it weighs just 10 ounces. But this little device hooks you up to practically unlimited knowledge. It’s like holding an entire bookstore in your hand. (And on the actual screen, you don’t see any glare like you do in this photo.)

Anytime you feel like reading something, just switch on your Kindle, browse the available listings, and wirelessly download a book in less than a minute, for less than the cost of a paperback. (Sorry, overseas friends – the Kindle is currently available only in the U.S. because of its reliance on Sprint’s 3G network. Verify that Kindle wireless coverage is available in your area.)

This is not some big clunky object. The Kindle 2 has a very sleek design, much better than its predecessor. It’s comfortable to hold, and it doesn’t get hot like a computer. The battery charges in 4 hours and lasts 4 days. It’s easy to use, with no technical skills needed. There are no contracts or anything to sign up for (assuming you already have an Amazon account). You really just take it out of the box and follow the simple on-screen guide to get started.

But what’s so great about this?

How is a Kindle that much better than just carrying a book around with you? Well, the difference is that with the Kindle, you’re not carrying around one book, but up to 1,500. (If you actually download that many books, you can delete them to free up space, and re-download them for free later.) Never again will you have an excuse for having nothing to do, or not knowing what book to take on a trip with you.

Here’s an example of how you might use it. You arrive at the airport, and find that your flight’s been delayed by 4 hours. Other people might be upset in that situation, but not you, because you have a Kindle.

You pull it out of your carry-on bag, and flip the switch. Two seconds later, the Kindle automatically loads the book you were reading last, opened to the exact page you were on. You were near the very end of the book, so you quickly finish it. What next? With a nearly infinite selection available, you feel like a kid in a candy store.

You remember people saying good things about Tribes by Seth Godin, so you decide to take a look. You press the Menu button and select “Shop in Kindle Store.” There are handy links to national best sellers, Kindle top sellers, and Amazon’s recommendations for you, as well as options to browse books, newspapers, magazines, and blogs.

You browse the book selections, and instead of choosing one of the 24 categories, you just type “Tribes” into the search engine. The Amazon rating and reviews for Tribes come up, but you’re more interested in downloading the free sample chapter. And you like it, so you decide to buy the book.

Your Kindle-less friends paid $13.57 plus shipping, and waited for 5 days. But you’ll pay just $9.99 and be reading it in less than a minute. (New releases are generally $9.99, even if the print version is $25 or more. Some cost less, and some are even free.)

While everyone else is twiddling their thumbs or trying to sleep on the airport benches, you’re soaking up Seth Godin’s wisdom and not even noticing the passage of time.

At first, I basically saw the Kindle as a fun and easy way to read more books. I really don’t read enough, and I know I’m going to be reading more now that I’ve got convenient, nearly unlimited access wherever I go. I’ll expand my knowledge, and thanks to the free sample chapters offered for many books, I’ll be able to take no-risk looks beyond the topics I usually read about.

Amazon Kindle screenshot

However, I found the Kindle to be even better than I expected. I thought it would be the next best thing to having a real book, but it’s actually far superior to a printed book in several ways. For one thing, the readability is just amazing.

The picture above shows someone reading her Kindle in bright sunlight, without any glare. You can tilt it at any angle, and the text is always sharp and clear (more so than it appears in this picture). Sun or shade or indoors, it all works. You don’t need a great light source like you do with a printed book. There’s no backlighting you so can’t read it in total darkness, but pretty much any indoor location will be bright enough.

There are six different font sizes to choose from, so you can pick the one that’s best for your eyes. There are 16 shades of gray, so pictures look good. It really is gentler on your eyes than a computer screen, or even a printed book. The narrow column helps you read faster and not lose your place.

Read it in bed just like a regular book. You don’t need to turn any pages – just push one of the “next page” buttons that will naturally be under either of your thumbs. You don’t need a bookmark either – set it down when the phone rings and it will eventually go into power save mode, but it will never lose the page, even if you turn it off or start reading another book.

You can search within the book, mark sections to come back to later, and type up notes while you’re reading. Move the cursor to any word, and the built-in dictionary gives you a definition. You can have the Kindle read to you with its text-to-speech feature, but it sounds as bad as a GPS unit, and I don’t see why anyone would use this unless they have severe vision problems. You also have web access (currently in the experimental stage), though I found using Wikipedia to be painfully slow.

The Kindle also has a number of advanced features that I don’t really need, like the ability to take a Word or PDF document on your computer and email it to your Kindle account, having it converted to Kindle format for a charge of ten cents. But the advanced features stay out of your way, and don’t interfere with the basics.

Things the Kindle could do better:

1. When someone’s Kindle arrives on their doorstep, they’re eager to get started immediately. And while it’s easy to learn how to use it, you’ll quickly run into the problem of not having any books on it. Needing to stop and decide what book to start with really breaks your momentum. The Kindle should come with some books to get you started. Why not give the user Kindle access to all the books they’ve previously bought from Amazon?

2. They need to expand their selections, but of course they’re already working on that. They’ve got a huge number of books already, but if you’re looking for something in particular, it might not be available on the Kindle.

3. With the profit margins being so high on electronic books, they can afford to offer package deals. Like the complete works of Michael Crichton, for a huge discount.

4. The Kindle really needs a carrying case. While it’s easy to hold, it’s not so easy to take with you, because the way you would naturally carry it would put a thumbprint on the screen. I see now that there are some fancy cases available on Amazon, but the Kindle should at least come with a cheap pouch just so you have something protecting the screen. If I were to take it on a plane right now, I’d stuff it in my carry-on after wrapping it in saran wrap!

Is it worth the price?

The Kindle 2 sells for $359, the same as the Kindle 1 sold for. So far, they’ve focused on making the new model much better instead of bringing down the price. The Kindle 2 looks and works great, so I don’t see a need to wait for the next one.

Some people balk at the price, but I think it’s perfectly reasonable. Remember the $600 iPhone and PlayStation 3? Don’t forget that you’ll save money on books. If you buy 24 books at $9.99 on the Kindle instead of $24.99 for paperbacks, the Kindle pays for itself.

I know, it would take a while for that to happen, but the point of the Kindle isn’t to save money on books. It’s to immerse you in knowledge, insight, thought, and entertainment wherever you go. That’s worth a few hundred bucks to me.

Oh, and for your first Kindle book, consider UR, Stephen King’s $2.99 novella written exclusively for the Kindle. It’s about an English teacher who orders a Kindle after his ex-girlfriend asks him, “Why can’t you just read off the computer like the rest of us?”

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Someday Syndrome Interview

Monday, March 16th, 2009

Alex Fayle has interviewed me as a part of his Someday Syndrome interview series. Alex is a guy who helps you sort out your life, figure out the stuff you don’t need, discover what you really want, and start your life now instead of waiting for someday.

Head over there and find out who I am, where I feel stuck, the value of pity parties, how to break up pity parties, how it feels to take a risk, what variety of Someday Syndrome I’m afflicted with, how I plan to eliminate it from my life, what I’d tell people in my situation, and the one thing I would ask for.

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Mixed Handedness: Bridging The Gap Between Left And Right

Wednesday, March 11th, 2009


Two hands can be better than one. A well-coordinated effort of both hands makes it possible to count to 255 on your fingers (FF in hexadecimal). But mixed handedness may have consequences. Photo by Hexadecimal Time.

I always thought I was left handed. Oh sure, I do some things with my right hand, but we go by the hand you write with, right?

Actually, handedness is not a binary choice, but a continuum from purely left handed to purely right handed. Researchers say that people often aren’t aware that they’re officially mixed handed.

In a common measure of handedness called the Edinburgh Handedness Inventory, people are asked to perform 10 specific tasks. Doing even one of them with the other hand makes you mixed handed. I do 6 with my left, and 4 with my right, putting me towards the neutral end of the “mixed left hander” category.

There are different versions of this test floating around. One of them lets you specify different levels of hand preference, and gives you a numerical score from -1.0 for a pure left hander to +1.0 for a pure right hander, with 0.0 indicating that neither hand is preferred overall. I got -0.2, or just left of neutral.

I made this Handedness test into a web application, to spare people from the math. Give it a go. I’ll create a page listing the scores people report, so leave a comment with your score and I’ll link to you (links will be no-follow, the name you use can include branding words but must start with your real name, and your URL should point to actual content rather than an ad).

When I found out that using my right hand for so many tasks wasn’t typical for a left hander, I thought about what I do with each hand, to see if there was a pattern. There wasn’t a clear pattern, but I noticed some interesting combinations:

Things I do left handed Things I do right handed
Using a fork (without a knife), with a stabbing motion (like for sausage) Using a fork (without a knife), with a scooping motion (like for rice)
Firing a pistol Firing a rifle
Boxing Kickboxing
Using a sword with one hand Using a sword with two hands
Juggling an odd number of objects Juggling an even number of objects

Left handers are much more likely to be mixed handed than right handers are. For one thing, lefties are forced to adapt to a right handed world. Lefties also tend to have more symmetrical brains, resulting in natural mixed handedness. There are both pros and cons to mixed handedness, and I’ll write about this later, after I learn more about it.

It’s hard to distinguish between natural and learned mixed handedness. Why do I use scissors with my right hand? Is it because that’s my natural preference, or because my preschool teachers told me to? I don’t remember.

I also don’t remember the first time I used a mouse. Did I use my right hand because it was natural, or because it’s what everyone else was doing?

I’m also not sure how they decide what’s left and right handed for some things. I’m looking at a Washington Post article that shows two examples of left handed former presidents (it was written when mixed lefty Barack Obama was running against strong lefty John McCain). There’s a picture of George H.W. Bush gesturing with his left hand. OK, that’s a clear sign of left handedness. But then there’s a picture of Bill Clinton holding a microphone in his right hand and pointing with his left. That doesn’t exactly scream “Lefty!”

How do we know that pointing is more important than holding a microphone? If he gives a speech knowing that he’s not going to point, does he hold the microphone in his left hand? If you drive with just your left hand on the steering wheel, is that because you’re left handed, or because you’re keeping your dominant right hand free for more important things, like your Big Gulp in the cup holder? If you play golf the “right handed way,” are you really right handed, or could you just want your dominant left arm in front?

Anyway, back to this Handedness test. Go ahead and take it before reading these questions, so I don’t bias you.

- Writing and drawing are listed separately. Does anyone use different hands for them?

- When do you use a knife without a fork? What do you think they’re going for here? I thought about baking a loaf of bread and then slicing it. But might someone use the other hand in a knife fight?

- In the first version I saw, the broom task was listed as “using a broom (upper hand is dominant) or brushing one’s hair.” That seems a bit strange. Does anyone use different hands for these?

- Also, the jar task was listed as “opening a box or a jar lid.” Does anyone use different hands for these?

- It says you’re mixed handed if you do even one task with the other hand. The exception is a left hander using scissors with their right hand, because scissors are often designed for right handers. First, is that true? Do any left handers here use right handed scissors for ergonomic reasons? Second, if scissors aren’t a reliable indicator, then why are they on the test?

I’m curious to hear who uses what hand for what. Leave your score below if you want to, and share any interesting handedness stories you might have. The test gives the breakdown between the different types (left and right, strong and mixed) in the U.S. population. I wonder if there will be a similar breakdown among my readers.

For way, way more mixed-handed goodness, check out my ebooks Ambidextrous (for right-handers) and Ambisinistrous (for left-handers).

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Dweep And Lolo

Thursday, February 19th, 2009

Steve Pavlina often mentions a computer game he wrote in 1999 called Dweep. He talks about it mainly because of some important lessons he learned from writing it. I finally got around to playing it recently, and instantly became a huge fan.

I found two posts of Steve’s that tell the story of how he created Dweep: Self-Discipline: Hard Work and What I Learned From Going Bankrupt in My 20s That Proves to Be Immensely Valuable in My 30s.

You can read those posts for the details, but I’ll give you a summary of what happened.

He landed a deal with a game publisher, but they inexplicably stopped communicating, then stopped paying, then pulled out of the deal, then filed a frivolous lawsuit against him (then got caught in an accounting scandal, being fined millions of dollars by the SEC). The next year he got a deal with a more honest publisher, but they got into financial trouble and had to pull out.

The end result was that Steve had turned his life savings of $20,000 into $150,000 of debt. He and his wife Erin got kicked out of their apartment for not paying their rent, and they had to declare bankruptcy.

But before giving up, Steve wanted to make one last game, one he’d really be proud of.

Of course, he was broke, so he couldn’t compete with the flashy graphics of high budget games. Instead, he decided to make a game that was truly original and very well designed. He spent a whole 4 months just working on the design of his game. This is the step that most people skipped, choosing instead to copy an existing game. After that, it only took 2 more months to do everything else. He got the whole thing done for no money.

Dweep won the Shareware Game of the Year award in 2000. Steve was interviewed in the New York Times, and his company became profitable for the first time.

You can download the trial version of Dweep here. (It’s always a good idea to run downloads through your antivirus program.) If you like puzzle games, you’ll really appreciate how well designed this is. I was quickly hooked.

Unfortunately, Dweep has since been discontinued, so the full version isn’t available for sale anymore (though it must be out there somewhere). The most similar game I know of is Adventures of Lolo, which you can play for free at that link.

Both games will challenge your logical abilities and prevent you from getting any work done today. Dweep has a tighter design, but Lolo has more action. If you’re into puzzle games, give them a go. If you get stuck, I can provide support in the comments.

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It’s Time To Reclaim Your Dreams

Tuesday, February 10th, 2009

Reclaim Your Dreams

Are you living your dreams? Most people don’t even remember their dreams. They’ve buried them under a pile of excuses, disillusionment, and social conformity. Jonathan Mead wants to help us escape the grind and live by our dreams, with his new ebook Reclaim Your Dreams: An Uncommon Guide to Living on Your Own Terms.

When I come across ebooks like this, I often buy them because I think this is a hugely important topic. At the same time, because so much has been written about this topic already, it’s really hard for any new ebook to stand out.

So I bought it, not really knowing if it would be different from what I’ve read already. After all, it was only a few weeks ago when I read Career Renegade, a pretty darn thorough guide to making a great living doing what you love. Would Reclaim Your Dreams really be that different?

As it turns out, yes. Reclaim Your Dreams is very different from the other books I’ve read because it focuses on the “softer side,” if you will. Recognizing that a one-size-fits-all solution is no good, Jonathan takes us through the process of first creating space for our dreams to breathe and grow, then figuring out what they actually are (not what someone tells us they should be).

“Once I started seeing through the eyes of my heart — instead of a socially-conditioned lens — things started to transform dramatically.”

- Jonathan Mead

He talks about how we’re brainwashed, we’re giving away our power, and our minds are constantly conflicted. I’ve recently written about how I’ve felt conflicted between what I called lightworking and neutralworking, between making a living and being who I want to be. Jonathan knows how important it is to integrate your heart with your mind.

“Integrating your heart and mind is the main goal of this book. I’ve struggled with this a lot myself. I know how painful and discouraging it can be. If I can help you with anything, I want to help you with this.”

- Jonathan Mead

So I see this as the perfect complement to Career Renegade. It’s not going to tell you the specifics of how to make money, but it will bring you clarity and stop you from getting in your own way.

You’ll learn how to figure out your dreams, your purpose, and your values. You’ll learn how to overcome uncertainty, reclaim ownership of your time, and create your dream sanctuary. You’ll even write your own personal manifesto.

I’m still in the early draft stage of most of the exercises, but I did the one about finding your values. I had seen this particular exercise before, but I had never felt compelled to do it until now.

Jonathan suggests limiting your list to at most seven values–the seven that are most important for you to align your life with. Here’s what I came up with:

  • freedom
  • abundance
  • creativity
  • authenticity
  • knowledge
  • playfulness
  • contribution

I’m not completely happy with this list. Freedom and abundance are very similar, at least to me, so can I eliminate one? But they each have critical elements that the other one doesn’t. What about combining authenticity and knowledge into truth? But then that’s not really specific enough. Is playfulness really important enough to be on the list? More important than “not being a jerk?” Do I really care that much about contribution?

Still, having a good first draft is a lot better than what I had before, which was nothing. Thanks, Jonathan! Now I need to improve my alignment with these values.

This ebook is beautifully written, and it has a fantastic design that Jonathan did himself. I think you’ll find it very unconventional and inspiring. But don’t dally–Reclaim Your Dreams is only available at a discounted price until Friday.

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