Life Balance In The Age Of Excellence
Sunday, April 29th, 2012Some of you may have read Jason Calacanis’ recent post The Age of Excellence, about how there’s no longer room for average or good, but rather it’s five stars or nothing. And if you did, maybe you’re wondering if your desire for life balance is putting your career at risk. Jason explained how he handled an average employee, what he refers to as “startup kryptonite:”
“If you have someone who is average, I suggest you do what I’ve started doing: offer to give them a reference to work at your competitors. I seriously did that recently. I liked someone a lot, they were really cool and really smart, but they set their target in life at doing ‘good work’ and having balance in their life…The person left and is happier in their life, and I am happy to open the seat for someone excellent.”
He predicts that unemployment will get worse, and merely good contributors will find their work outsourced to countries offering cheap labor.
Yikes! Do we really have to render ourselves unemployable in the name of a little life balance? Say it’s not so!
Well, this is where I have to disagree with some of his conclusions. Maybe he’s right if he’s just talking about startups. Maybe it’s so hard to hit a home run today that you need everyone on your team to be obsessed with doing just that.
But outside the startup world, I know plenty of people who have gotten by with good, average, mediocre, or even poor performance for years, and I don’t see any reason why they couldn’t continue to do so. While it can be hard to get a job, it’s usually very easy to keep one.
Now, I’m not suggesting that people coast through their careers, doing the least they can get away with. I think that anything worth doing is worth doing well. But this doesn’t mean that performing well enough to exceed expectations has to mean putting in more hours or raising your stress levels. Just a few ideas:
- Don’t waste time. Tackling things with a mild sense of urgency makes them more interesting than just watching the grass grow. If you finish what you’re working on, find something else to do instead of waiting for it to come to you. Skip useless meetings, with the excuse of the big important thing you’re working on.
- Get more experience. This is largely a matter of just keeping your eyes open as things happen. More depth means getting better at what you’ve been doing. More breadth means getting better at more things. Either way, things will tend to get easier over time, if you’re paying attention.
- Communicate better. Ask people if you’re doing what they want instead of assuming. Ask if someone has a better idea than what you’re planning to do. Make suggestions if you see options that might work better.
- Care. If you wouldn’t show up at work with a rumpled shirt and unkempt hair, don’t allow your work to look like that either. Small things can make a big difference. Take that extra step to make sure that your spreadsheet isn’t ugly, your email doesn’t contain random apostrophes, or your program won’t break if someone tries to divide by zero.
Do things like this, and you’ll be far above the line of minimum employability (though perhaps not at a startup), while still having room for that coveted life balance. Excellence optional, not required.



