Delayed Gratification: Blessing Or Curse?
April 8th, 2010
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As a follow-up to the gut thinking discussion, @MiscBytes passed on a link to a relevant study. It turns out that Armed With Information, People Make Poor Choices (and despite the date, I don’t think it was an April Fools’ joke).
How do you choose between a smaller reward now and a bigger reward later? You might expect that people who think with their gut would foolishly choose short term satisfaction, while people who think with their brain would wisely do what’s better in the long run. But the study found that people who were given complete information about their options were more likely to take the quick reward.
One of the researchers said “To fully appreciate a long-term option, you have to choose it repeatedly and begin to feel the benefits.” In other words, you have to train your gut, because your head isn’t making the decision, even when you give it all the information it needs.
The study involved racking up points in a computer program, with a cash incentive for good performance. Subjects were repeatedly given two options. One option gave more points now, while the other gave the possibility of more points later. The subjects who were given full and accurate information were twice as likely to take the quick payoff as those who were given incomplete or false information about what they were giving up.
(I had a couple of problems with the article. One, it was really vague about the long term option. What were the odds of it paying off (it appeared to not be guaranteed), and how much would it pay off (presumably more points than you gave up in the short term, but it doesn’t say)? But I’m assuming it was apparent to the subjects that the long term option was logically the better choice. Two, it leaves its title hanging – it doesn’t offer any explanation as to why having more information causes you to make the wrong choice.)
This reminded me of the marshmallow test. In this study, marshmallows were placed in front of hungry four year olds. They were told they could eat one marshmallow now, or they could have two if they waited a few minutes. 14 years later, the ones who were able to hold out for two marshmallows were more socially competent, optimistic, assertive, dependable, trustworthy, and scored 210 points higher on the SAT.
However, in the marshmallow test (and maybe the computer program test too), the long term choice is clearly better. Your second marshmallow is guaranteed, and coming in just a few minutes. But is the long term winner always the better choice?
Here’s an example from the “armed with information” article: “In a real-life scenario, a student who stayed home to study and then learned he had missed a fun party would be less likely to study next time in a similar situation – even if that option provides more long-term benefits.”
OK, but is that a bad thing? Are they supposed to skip all parties so they can spend all of their time studying? Once you’ve studied enough, how much benefit is there in studying a little more, compared to going to a party?
In The 4-Hour Workweek, Tim Ferriss says “This book is not about saving and will not recommend you abandon your daily glass of red wine for a million dollars 50 years from now. I’d rather have the wine.” That’s a reasonable choice. Not necessarily the one everyone should make, but a reasonable one.
It’s important to consider the cost of instant gratification. But it’s also important to consider the cost of waiting. How much is the wine worth to you?



April 8th, 2010 at 7:44 am
Hmm. Good question. Wine is pretty important to me. lol It definitely depends on the reward though. I know of a young teenager who works very hard in school and plays a competitive sport. Both are important to her. So much so , that she has chosen to miss some social functions in order to make training or study. However, every now and then there is a social function that is important to her, and she’ll miss the training in order to participate in the fun. So I think it depends on the person and what’s important to them.
April 8th, 2010 at 1:10 pm
When I was younger, I always waited for the two marshmallows. For three years I stuck with a private high school I hated because people in the school I was zoned for didn’t tend to do very well in college. Then I missed most of the “wine” in college so I could study all the time and have a high GPA, just waiting for all those marshmallows that I was sure would come someday.
Now that I’m middle-aged, I am much less likely to sacrifice for a long time for some distant goal – not sure if I got burned out or disillusioned, or if I’m just content!
April 9th, 2010 at 1:02 am
@ Heather, absolutely, everyone has their own values, and so it will always depend on the person.
@ Christie, I was a two marshmallow guy when I was younger. Now it’s more like one and a half. Maybe I’ll be down to one by the time I’m middle-aged!
April 9th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
Hmmm…makes sense really. After all, we want to enjoy life along the way – having a bite of a marshmallow IMMEDIATELY now and then is awesome.
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April 29th, 2010 at 6:05 am
I think when you delay gratification, you realise that it never fulfilled you anyway and start looking for simple things and there are lots of those.